If you looking for a perfect person, you can stop right now. There is no such thing as “perfect person” and “perfect relationship”, but there are imperfect people that we can see perfectly. Flaws shouldn’t be a reason to reject people, we need to start learning how to accept them and live with them. Give people chances no matter what, because nobody is perfect and nobody will never be. Don’t reject someone because they don’t match your “criteria”. Stop trying to change people too, just let them be who they are. No relationship can be “healthy” if people constantly trying to change each other, instead of doing that just learn to love them how they are. Open up and try to see things from different perspective. There would be less brake ups and divorces in this world, if people would start accepting each other.