Some people think that only finding love and relationship can change their life and bring them happiness. What they do not realize is that the only person that can do that is right in front of you. We need to start from looking in the mirror and loving ourselves. You cannot be happy with anyone if you are not happy with yourself. If you do not love yourself, why should anyone love YOU? YOU are in control of your own happiness and YOU are the only person that can change your life. Stop desperately looking for a relationship as if that is the only road to a happy life. Have some trust and belief, and love will find you at the right time. But more importantly, learn how to love and take care of yourself before you will commit to share your love with anyone.